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Appeal to Reality

A rhetorical fallacy where someone invokes "reality" as an authority to settle a question without acknowledging that reality is interpreted, not given. "Get your head out of the clouds and face reality" becomes a way of dismissing alternative perspectives as unrealistic. The fallacy lies in treating one's own interpretation of reality as Reality Itself, with a capital R. But reality is mediated—through perception, through language, through culture, through theory. Appealing to reality as if it were unmediated is appealing to your own framework while pretending it's the only one.
"You think the system could be different? That's not realistic. Face reality." That's Appeal to Reality—treating your interpretation of what's possible as Reality Itself. But reality includes change, includes alternatives, includes possibility. 'Realistic' often means 'what I'm used to,' not 'what must be.' Appealing to reality is just appealing to your own assumptions dressed up as the way things are."
Appeal to Reality by Dumu The Void February 28, 2026
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Appeal to Reality Fallacy

A more arrogant and absolute version of the "Appeal to Real Life" fallacy. This move claims a monopoly on defining objective "reality" itself, dismissing counter-arguments as not just mistaken but existing in a fantasy realm. It often conflates practical constraints with metaphysical necessity, declaring that one's own view of how things are is the only possible description of reality, making alternative futures or structures "unrealistic" by fiat.
Appeal to Reality Fallacy Example: "Thinking we can achieve world peace is naive. Reality is that humans are inherently tribal and violent. Anyone who believes otherwise is a child." This fallacy elevates a specific philosophical claim about human nature (or current political realities) to the status of an unchangeable cosmic law, using "reality" as a bludgeon to outlaw hope or imagination.
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A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.
Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026
Word of the Day on September 23, 2026

murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.
DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021
Word of the Day on September 22, 2026
In sales terms, a whale is a prospect that is significantly larger than an organization’s average customer.

Whales are large and extremely difficult to close. Due to their immense size, they are highly sought-after.

A whale is typically identified at first by a whale hunter on the sales team, but often requires cross-discipline participation in order to close; this includes assistance from operations, engineering, creative, client success, and business development teams.
"Shit...the sales director chewed me out on the sales call this morning. He's totally pissed that I have nothing in my pipeline. I've been focused on this one whale for so long that I haven't had time to prospect for normal-sized deals."
Whale by FQ_GFY February 3, 2020
Word of the Day on September 21, 2026

Concrete cowboy 

A guy who thinks he's a country kinda guy, but in reality lives a comfortable city / suburban life.
Eugene: Look at that dude in the cowboy hat!
Todd: He's just a concrete cowboy.
Word of the Day on September 20, 2026
any hard liquor that is cheap & potent.. eg. relska, popov, potters, evan williams, kamchatka, fireball, rumpleminze, southern comfort, everclear
hey let's get a drink of that?

go ahead
*takes drink* ugh wtf is that?

everclear & bepsi
fucking hobo loko eeessshh
hobo loko by d i z k o 2 0 8 September 14, 2026
Word of the Day on September 19, 2026

God Shot 

A chance happening with profound meaning, an unexpected blessing, a "sign".
Dr. Drew on Celebrity Rehab said "All of a sudden what had been just another Hollywood proposal became for him an unexpected blessing, an opportunity for growth. In drug recovery language, that's called a "God shot."
God Shot by Imogen1564 February 25, 2011
Word of the Day on September 18, 2026
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