to blow it in a big way or to make an obviously avoidable mistake
(originating from the Bob Newhart Show, "Hi, I'm Larry, this is my brother Darryl, and this is my other brother Darryl.")
"Les, your post-drinking, late night snack encounter broke our toaster, you just pulled a darryl!"
A boyish-man who constantly argues about sports positions he has little understanding of, sucks at Pokemon and does mediocre solar array designs. He is cute though!
"Did you see that new guy they hired?"
"Yeah, but he's a total Adarryl!"
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.