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Flow Boy

See: Beta AF. Fuckboy, the spiritually enlightened edition.

Wannabe alpha, self-proclaimed “open curious wanderer,” low-effort bro. Heard the term “flow state” on a Michael Pollen podcast and decided it was high vibration. Into microdosing, saunas, and DMT vape. Brags Alpha pics, sends wishy-washy word salad when pressed for integrity. College degree for weed startup or crypto tech gig puts him one notch above a wook. Flashy style, vanilla essence. Wants hookups, claims ENM but avoids vulnerability and upfront communication. High-grade women on hold, too scared to level up. Shady about consent, deflects responsibility, expects woman to initiate everything, then uses it to dodge accountability. Congruence makes him cringe. Fears exposure, panic-blocks to stop panty-dropper drought. Local Burner with sacred ink, yet clueless on Hermetics. Unfollowing a tantra account is more taboo than healing his porn addiction. A mirage of cool, lacks adversity to expand true wisdom. Scared manboy whose self worth relies on superficial sex romps.
Flow boy: “I never said I was looking for a relationship of any sort so I don’t think I misrepresented anything. I was just going with the flow and mindful not to direct things that way.”

After stating your boundaries that you don’t do casual, the Flow boy proceeds to come over, hold a conversation about his therapy and attachment styles, leading you to believe he has evolved, and gets all kissy touchy on the couch leading to oral sex. A week later he has to be prompted for a follow up convo in which he replies, “I just like living life and flowing. I don’t have an issue with causal and I like hooking up with you, so it’s on you to be in control of your boundaries.” Not understanding he just overstepped your stated boundaries.

When pressed for clarity a flow boy is known to reply, “This feels really heavy and accusatory. I’m doing ENM with a few close friends now. It started a bit after we met up for the record. I can’t just change my disposition for you because this works for me right now. No one is in the wrong, we can all live how we want to live.”
by Alpha_Analog_Bish January 20, 2024
mugGet the Flow Boymug.

Flowing bananas

If youre flowing bananas, it means you're gay and open for business, the banana part indicates gay and flow because they're a steady stream of studs coming your way
Dave:I heard he's been flowing bananas!
Steve:dang! Maybe I'll hit him up!
by OGAndrews143 November 19, 2020
mugGet the Flowing bananasmug.

flow state

This phenomenon is a nearly trance-like condition where staying on YouTube requires less physical effort than moving to a different activity. Hours can pass if children are allowed to keep scrolling, with no intervention. This can also impact a user’s sleep and exercise habits.
Once she hit that flow state on YouTube, I knew it was game over—there was no way she’d get off the couch until midnight!
by Emotional Cruiser September 22, 2025
mugGet the flow statemug.

Kawindu Flow

Feeling when everything is great and you are 7m above the gound and DJ is playing "I follow you" And all the latest updates have reached you.
I catche a good Kawindu Flow yesterday.
mugGet the Kawindu Flowmug.

C Flow

Chris Forehand’s alter ego, can also be interchangeable with the phrase “that nigga
Look at C Flow mannnn…so inspirational.
by Not Chris November 23, 2021
mugGet the C Flowmug.

Flow

A word made by the rapper “Jacob Cass” in his song Susano’o Flow and should not be used in any circumstances without his permission. Usually illegal if used without permission. Can result to 25+ years in prison.
“I used the word Flow in my new song. Should I credit Jacob Cass?”
by Lesnar1204 March 20, 2021
mugGet the Flowmug.

Blow My Flow

A song made by Henry and Daniel that sounds like"Blow My Flow Stick it in, Stick It Out, Do it again
by Ender_Hacker VH January 15, 2024
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