Normie definition: desperate for a relationship soy boy, who is unable to get any.
In a more general sense: a person who desperately desires a certain (usually more sexually active) lifestyle, that they are unable to achieve, but don't want to get over it.
In reality: one of many terms used to shame single (usually low sexual market value) males, even if they aren't looking for a relationship.
In a more general sense: a person who desperately desires a certain (usually more sexually active) lifestyle, that they are unable to achieve, but don't want to get over it.
In reality: one of many terms used to shame single (usually low sexual market value) males, even if they aren't looking for a relationship.
by veinsofgold May 18, 2019
An incel (/ˈɪnsɛl/ IN-sel, an abbreviation of "involuntary celibate") is a member of an online subculture of people who define themselves as unable to get a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one.
by cadburytits July 10, 2022
Noun. A.K.A. involuntary celibate.
A person who consciously desires to have sexual intercourse but is incapable of getting it for a variety of reasons that may or may not fall within his/her reasonable locus of control. Despite being widely used by holders and haters alike, this is a term that doesn't describe the full extent of the issues that self-identified "incels" struggle with. Most self-identified male incels reference the existence of a "black pill" (genetic determinism), which is more related to the reasoning, behind a sexually fulfilling life for males, being factors outside their reasonable locus of control (e.g. height, bone structure, race, dick size, etc.). This flies in contrast with ideological frameworks like the "blue pill" (complete and total blissful ignorance) and the "red pill" (behavioral determinism).
Despite what many haters or "anti-incels" may say, incel (condition) does not necessarily equal the black pill (ideological framework). As such, many "anti-incels" or "former incels" may be incels themselves, especially if they're male. These people are usually referred to as "incels-in-denial".
A person who consciously desires to have sexual intercourse but is incapable of getting it for a variety of reasons that may or may not fall within his/her reasonable locus of control. Despite being widely used by holders and haters alike, this is a term that doesn't describe the full extent of the issues that self-identified "incels" struggle with. Most self-identified male incels reference the existence of a "black pill" (genetic determinism), which is more related to the reasoning, behind a sexually fulfilling life for males, being factors outside their reasonable locus of control (e.g. height, bone structure, race, dick size, etc.). This flies in contrast with ideological frameworks like the "blue pill" (complete and total blissful ignorance) and the "red pill" (behavioral determinism).
Despite what many haters or "anti-incels" may say, incel (condition) does not necessarily equal the black pill (ideological framework). As such, many "anti-incels" or "former incels" may be incels themselves, especially if they're male. These people are usually referred to as "incels-in-denial".
Bluepiller: "I may be a kissless virgin at 30, but at least I'm not one of those horrible incels. Right, Honey?"
Honey: "Shut the fuck up, Steve. I'm going to have sex with Tyrone now. Just stay downstairs and play with your Nintendo Switch."
Bluepiller: "Yes, my goddess."
Anti-Incel: "See, inkels, all you have to do is have le personality, and you too can have a stellar relationship like this one."
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Redpiller: "Okay, after years upon years of going to the gym and learning game, I'm sure that I can finally bag at least a 1/10 female."
*does everything he learned and tries his absolute hardest*
1/10 female: "Ew, only 6 feet and above. Left-swipe."
Anti-Incel: "Yikes. He must've not had a good personality to not be able to attract a goddess like this. He should've showered a billion times a second and watched more movies with female protagonists."
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Blackpiller: "It's over."
Anti-Incel: "Yikes. This is literally violence and misogyny. You are literally the next Elliot Rodgers. I'm literally shaking right now. I'm going to screencap this and get this posted everywhere and dox you so that you get fired and can no longer financially support yourself and your loved ones. You are literal filth that deserves to die a slow and painful death."
Also Anti-Incel's Social Media: "I am really compassionate and just want to help people like incels realize their faults so that they can improve their personalities and live long, healthy, and fulfilling lives."
Honey: "Shut the fuck up, Steve. I'm going to have sex with Tyrone now. Just stay downstairs and play with your Nintendo Switch."
Bluepiller: "Yes, my goddess."
Anti-Incel: "See, inkels, all you have to do is have le personality, and you too can have a stellar relationship like this one."
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Redpiller: "Okay, after years upon years of going to the gym and learning game, I'm sure that I can finally bag at least a 1/10 female."
*does everything he learned and tries his absolute hardest*
1/10 female: "Ew, only 6 feet and above. Left-swipe."
Anti-Incel: "Yikes. He must've not had a good personality to not be able to attract a goddess like this. He should've showered a billion times a second and watched more movies with female protagonists."
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Blackpiller: "It's over."
Anti-Incel: "Yikes. This is literally violence and misogyny. You are literally the next Elliot Rodgers. I'm literally shaking right now. I'm going to screencap this and get this posted everywhere and dox you so that you get fired and can no longer financially support yourself and your loved ones. You are literal filth that deserves to die a slow and painful death."
Also Anti-Incel's Social Media: "I am really compassionate and just want to help people like incels realize their faults so that they can improve their personalities and live long, healthy, and fulfilling lives."
by Giko February 23, 2019
A person who lives in an attic and cannot achieve any attraction of any form from a woman. Exclusively plays Apex Legends. Uses Reddit and Discord religiously. Thinks he is a genius for being an atheist. Either built like a stick figure or a discord mod. Has only felt the touch of a woman when his mother left him on the side of the road as an infant.
by Seanisgay December 15, 2022
a term femels use against others when they get offended :(
Also high chance they are social rejects or Not genetically good looking
Also high chance they are social rejects or Not genetically good looking
♀️: Men are bad, they should go to war and die. Why do men exist. *Hating on men gender*
🤦 ♂️: that's not nice please stop lol you're cringe
♀️: *self projects* YOU'RE INCEL EWW!
🤦 ♂️: that's not nice please stop lol you're cringe
♀️: *self projects* YOU'RE INCEL EWW!
by The guy you broke him January 7, 2022
An individual (most commonly male) who believes a lack of sex they experience is due to factors beyond their control such as genetics and systemic oppression, rather than their willingness, or lack thereof, to court those as ugly and inept as themselves, and see no purpose behind improving their lives, as it's perceived as a coping mechanism.
You'd have to be a real incel to think you can find mad cuties without brushing your teeth. Remember to brush your teeth, kids...
by Jimmbalaya September 11, 2018
by t33nageanarchist November 10, 2020