hard femme

Not to be mistaken with the typical femme, the "hard femme" describes herself as "queer", is political, looks more feminine than masculine, and if prompted, can kick some serious ass. She doesn't need to "wear the pants" in a relationship- the hard femme rules with a dress. She not only despises the gender binary, she works to dismantle it.

Misogynist Butch: "There she is! It's that femme I told you about that tried to wear one with me!"
(Not necessarily misogynist) Butch #2: You should've known better. That girl's got "hard femme" written all over her.

by Donny's dyke September 27, 2007

femme lesbian

A female homosexual that still follows the average female attire attributes. This is the opposite of the stereotypical "butch" lesbian, whom dresses more like the male gender.

Sally: So the othe day I met this cute gay girl you might like.
Hannah: Is she a butch or a femme.
Sally: Definitely a femme lesbian, like you.

by Pink.Pen.Pink.Paper March 8, 2017

femmer

Fragile, weak, slender, easily broken.

"The venetian blinds were very femmer. Clare had to be careful when she put them up."

by daddylonglegz January 6, 2009

femmebear

A bear who is more effeminate than one might expect him to be from his appearances, as based on conventional expectations.

Our femmebear friend is lipsyncing to Whitney Houston again.

by bearhandler March 29, 2010

FEMENIGGA

MEN WHO GOSIP AND ACT LIKE BITCHES

IF YOU COMPLAIN AND TALK ABOUT ANOTHER MAN BEHIND HIS BACK YOU A FEMENIGGA

by WIZ KHALIFA KING May 29, 2013

femme lite

The semantic counterpart of a soft butch - more femme than an androgyne, but less femme than a femme. IOW soft butch is to femme lite, as butch is to femme.

A femme lite might also be described as a boyish-looking woman - in face, figure, and/or style - but with the emphasis on the woman. Not a tomboy... at least not anymore. Cute; handsome; capable.

Can be any sexual orientation or relational approach.

On TV or stage, self-described "chapstick lesbian" Ellen DeGeneres is a femme lite. But on the street she sometimes appears more of a tomboy, androgynous, or soft butch - i.e., somewhat less femme.

by Ceadaoin November 18, 2013

Femme fatale

A fucking song

“And everybody knows/she’s a femme fatale”

by Hallohillo July 22, 2019