struggle dusty

Term mainly used to describe black men who think women should submit to them while at the same time expecting the women to support them financially. They proceed to call the women "masculine" when they refuse to submit or ask them to get a job. They fail to provide and protect the women and children in their community as well as fail to keep black communities safe. They tend to prefer dating overweight white women claiming that they are more "submissive, generous and feminine" than black women while at the same time repeating history by leaving the white women single moms. They tell black women to "choose better" when they are abused or cheated on by their black boyfriend/husbands, but when these same black women date/marry white men they become infuriated. This is when the gas lighting toward black women begins and they take to social media to call them "bed wenches". They complain that black women are selling out and turning their backs on the black community, while at the same time praise other black men for dating non black women.

The term is used exchangeably with "three trash bag struggle dusty", "struggle bandit" or "remedial trash bag".

Shani: "Hey, girl. There was a struggle dusty that tried to hit on me when I was pumping gas at a gas station. He rode up on a bike and asked for my phone number. Then, asked me if I could give him $5 to clean the windshield of my Mercedes-Benz. I told him "no" and drove off."
Tatiana: (laughs) "Girl, you must have been suffocating from all the dust that was flying off of him."
Shani: "Right? Now, why would he think that I would lower my standards to be with a unemployed, remedial trash bag?"
Tatiana: "They must really think we are desperate. Their delusion is frightening."

by Jaja Dannevik October 20, 2021

Maverick Struggle

Term for having to settling for Mavericks instead of your usual cigarettes (eg. Newports, Marlboro, Camel, etc...) due to the rise in cost for a pack of cigs.

Garrett: dude let me bum a cig
Doug: ok... but they're Mavs, I can't afford Marlboros anymore
Garrett: oh, that sucks... I'll take one anyways
Doug: damn, i'm feelin' the maverick struggle

by cornerboys June 10, 2009

struggle sandwich

A sandwich on a budget. Typically consisting of bread and condiments (ketchup & mustard) or bread and ice. Considered a last option meal during tough economic periods for people.

Man I'm dead broke and won't get paid for another two weeks. Guess it's a struggle sandwich for dinner.

by Basedgawd May 16, 2013

Struggle Puffs

For the days when you cant afford cereal and milk, you fill a bowl with ice and pour water over it for breakfast.

Dave: Man, ever since i lost my job i've been eating struggle puffs for breakfast.

John: The struggle

by chestham November 20, 2013

shrug off

to brush something aside, to deny it or minimize it with a shrug

to shrug off an argument
-he said she told him that because she was jealous
-she shrugged it off

by Patrick Mangou February 15, 2009

struggly

The state of being both hideously unattractive, and socially awkward. One who is struggly would have to seriously struggle to fit in to a 'normal' social situation.

"dude, that chick was so struggly that even a hobo would turn down her company...."

by overlord19 March 3, 2007

shrug n' tug

An unenthusiastic handjob.

My wife gave me the ol' shrug n' tug for my birthday.

by The Donut Fairy April 12, 2017