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Gaslighting

A form of psychological abuse in which someone (historically male) attempts to invalidate or belittle another person (historically female) by painting a picture of them as 'psycho' or 'crazy'.
This is often done to justify, or deflect from the abuser's behavior.

This can be done in numerous ways

1) By attempting to trick the person themselves into thinking they are insane. Trying to make them lose trust in their own memory or perception.

2) By provocatively baiting someone (often by taunting them or pushing their buttons) into reacting 'irrationally' so that you may demonstrate to others that they are 'unmanageable', 'psycho' or 'crazy'.
F. Scott Fitzgerald was having an affair. In an attempt to 1) get rid of his wife, and get her out of the picture, and 2) justify his infidelity, he would try to convince her and others of her insanity. He would hide her belongings, torment her, withhold information from her then insist he told her and she simply forgot. This led to her being locked away in a mental asylum.

"Did you see how Michael was gaslighting Amber on Love Island last night? Her reaction to him cheating was completely sound until he provoked her by taunting her, and now he thinks he has proven his point that she is 'childish' and 'crazy'."
by RubySmith1999 July 16, 2019
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Gaslighting

Gaslighting:

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that's seen in mental abusive relationships. It's the act of manipulating a person by forcing them to question their thoughts, memories, and the events occurring around them. A victim of gaslighting can be pushed so far that they question their own sanity.

Women are very well known for gaslighting throughout the world they will constantly move things that someone else has placed somewhere then act as if they did not do so. Most of the time women do this in order to upset their paryner to the point where they blow up and argue, so that they (women) can then play the victim of emotional abuse themselves all while making the other party feel like a mad man losing his mind, with now a blame problem added to it all while they (men) sit in sorrow and regret questioning what is wrong with themself.

Don't fall for "Gaslighting" call it out!
My wife is constantly gaslighting me by moving my things.
by Critiknow November 21, 2020
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gaglighting

To convince someone they are crazy or wrong despite them being factually or morally correct
What do you mean? It’s always been “gaglighting”! Those crazy friends of yours are just lying to you.
by lameaslistg September 18, 2021
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Gaslighting 101

A curriculum taught by a professor who has mastered and specializes in gaslighting.
Hey Papi, I heard you teach gaslighting 101?

Papi: I have no idea what you're talking about.
by Simplicitees June 2, 2023
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Federal Gaslighting

When the government claims to be giving more in benefits, stimulus checks, or Cost of Living Adjustments…. But changes regulations so that the supposed change in favor of citizens is simultaneously recouped.
The check might be an extra thirty, but watch out for your other benefits—Bet it’s federal gaslighting.
by KittyColesium75 February 3, 2022
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Plushie Gaslighting

The act of planting a plushie in someones room, and convince them it’s always been there. Every time they get rid of it, you replace it and add a new plushie to their collection. Repeat until they're clinically insane.
"Dude, why are there so many plushies in ___'s room?"
"Plushie Gaslighting."
by Agent P.P November 25, 2022
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Daylighting

To make illegal activity, legal.
To make activity normally done at night and hidden, open and done in broad daylight.
Colorado is daylighting Mari 's juana.
by Kezsailu Gang June 16, 2016
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