A slang term used to refer to someone you’re interested in romantically or claim as yours. Commonly used in
casual conversation to
check where someone stands or express interest.
The term was created and popularized by
YouTuber, rapper, and streamer DDG, who often uses it when talking to or about women he's vibing with.
"You my ball?" – A way of asking "Are you
mine?" or looking for confirmation that the girl is feelin’ you.
Example: “You my ball or what? I been tryna
see where we stand.”
"Who ball is you?" – A question for the girl, asking who she’s talking to or involved with at the moment.
Example: “You out here lookin' good—who ball is you?”
"Ain’t that my ball?" – Used when you
see the girl you mess with talking to someone else or walking by without acknowledging you.
Example: “Ain’t that my ball? She acting like she
don’t know me
now?”