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A "thot" of sorts...someone (mostly a female) who craves male validation; who craves the attention of all the boys in a 100-mile radius.

NOT a girl who has a different opinion than you or agrees with something that a guy says, that you don't agree with.
just because a girl isn't a feminist, or belives in men's rights, doesn't make her a "pick me" girl :)
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Pick Me

A woman who actively attempts to be picked for marriage. Often married by 25, the 'PickMe' women care about their image and know that their job is to be a good reflection of her man. The woman you picture in your head as a 'PickMe' is simply a twisted image of what a true PickMe is. This definition has been twisted by modern females who believe that they 'need no man'.
"A Pick Me gets picked because they know what men want."
by SallyWallburg May 30, 2021
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Pick-Pack

A small, hand-sized pipe used to smoke cannabis by-products like hash or pot

*Also known as pic-pac or pik-pak*
I miss my old pick-pack.
by Niamie McDermoth March 4, 2004
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Pick-podding

When a person or group of persons go out with the intention to steal an i-pod.
"Hey, wanna go pick-podding later tonight?"
by James Watkins April 3, 2005
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Pick Me Boy

Boys who denigrate other men for the sake of female attention. They also change their attitudes and views to suit whatever women they are talking with.
Girl: *Says anything*

Pick Me Boy: OMG, men are pigs.
by Monitz12342524 April 27, 2022
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Pick Me Girl Syndrome

When someone acts like a pick me girl, saying the words "teehee", copying people's video edits, brainwashing people, thinking your most important over everyone.

Side effects may include,
- anger
- nausea
- memory loss
- high pitched voice
- losing long-time friends
- multiple crushes on people
Oh no! You have pick me girl syndrome! Quick! To the hospital!
by dessaesthetic November 11, 2022
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Pick Me Girl

An insult aimed at any woman that doesn't mindlessly follow feminist dogma. It can also be used by feminists as a generic insult towards any woman they don't personally like, regardless of the political ideology of the woman being insulted. It is similar to "incel" or "nazi" by which it's meant to undermine any counter made to progressive rhetoric by labelling the critic something negative instead of actually engaging with the argument in good faith.

Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Eg. 1:
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."

B: "Found the pick me girl lol.

Eg. 2:

A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."

B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
by mel999 April 5, 2023
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