SAP stands for "sexual authoritarian puritans". The term encompasses a set of beliefs that are rooted in shaming "problematic" sexual behaviors between consenting adults. SAPs often have beliefs that overlap with right-wing conservatives, SWERfs (sex worker-exclusionary radical feminists), and TERFs (trans-exclusionary radical feminists), but SAPs consider themselves progressives. SAPs usually cloak their sex-negative beliefs in progressive sounding language and often end up targeting people with marginalized identities, particularly transgender women and sex workers.
SAP: This fictional piece of media about a kinky gay vampire and his human submissive is problematic! It fetishizes gay men and has an age gap relationship between a man in his twenties and an immortal being! I need to target the lesbian creator of this story!
A rational human being: You're being a SAP, stop harassing adults for harmless expressions of sexuality.
A rational human being: You're being a SAP, stop harassing adults for harmless expressions of sexuality.
by leatherhedonist October 13, 2020
Get the SAPmug. by BenFoldsSeven August 31, 2021
Get the sucking the sapmug. Someone whose depression or sad behavior gets in the way of their social life; Making that person hard to deal with.
This word originated from a mix of the words "sad" and "person". If you have a friend who often talks to you about their sad life, again and again, they are being a sap. If your friend ruins the fun group's handout mood with their sadness, they are being a sap. If you find yourself doing these behaviors above, chances are you are being a sap. It's good to realize you are being a sap before you ruin friendships or annoy people.
This word originated from a mix of the words "sad" and "person". If you have a friend who often talks to you about their sad life, again and again, they are being a sap. If your friend ruins the fun group's handout mood with their sadness, they are being a sap. If you find yourself doing these behaviors above, chances are you are being a sap. It's good to realize you are being a sap before you ruin friendships or annoy people.
"I love hanging out with Phill but sometimes he's such a fucking sap.
All Phill talks about is how sad and depressing his life is, he's a broken record.
Why can't we have a day where Phili doesn't vent about his problems?"
"Hey man, can I talk to you about how I feel without me sounding like a sap?"
"Of course, bro."
"Thanks, man. So I've been dealing with... and I feel... you know?"
"Shit man that's tough, if you need to talk more just let me know. Don't worry bro you're not being a sap right now. You just need to speak your mind during a tough hill in your life right now."
All Phill talks about is how sad and depressing his life is, he's a broken record.
Why can't we have a day where Phili doesn't vent about his problems?"
"Hey man, can I talk to you about how I feel without me sounding like a sap?"
"Of course, bro."
"Thanks, man. So I've been dealing with... and I feel... you know?"
"Shit man that's tough, if you need to talk more just let me know. Don't worry bro you're not being a sap right now. You just need to speak your mind during a tough hill in your life right now."
by Bad2Good November 2, 2020
Get the Sapmug. The Self Appointed Police, used as a derogatory term for those jackass toxic people on Twitter who think they can control popular people in the media
by Dinatins November 21, 2021
Get the Sapsmug. by TrulyXSlash November 21, 2023
Get the Sapmug. A wonderful concoction made from one part whiskey and one part REAL maple syrup. best served hot or cold.
hey bartender!
I am cold and I have no energy. what should I have?
bartender: imma gonna hook you up with some a this dank drunken sap poor fella.
I am cold and I have no energy. what should I have?
bartender: imma gonna hook you up with some a this dank drunken sap poor fella.
by ilpvemaplesytru July 10, 2009
Get the drunken sapmug. by Diazmet October 26, 2008
Get the Sapmug.