a person, specifically a woman, who will do anything extra to receive the attention and validation from men.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.
there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.
there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.
i really dislike sara, she is a pick me. i remember one time she purposely made fun of me in front of a huge group of boys just to see them all laugh... i never felt so embarrassed yet so betrayed in my entire life.
by gissguu March 19, 2022
Get the pick memug. An insult (usually directed towards teenage women) which implies that that person is an attention seeker but doesn’t like to say that they are one or a person who is addicted to their phone and constantly is scrolling on tiktok with the volume on max
Person 1:Emily is such a pick me
Person 2:I know she keeps on trying to slap my phone out of my hand around everyone else
Person 2:I know she keeps on trying to slap my phone out of my hand around everyone else
by Calamari toast August 21, 2022
Get the a pick memug. "It's shameful how Megan Thee Stallion and Cardi B have no respect for themselves," Amy sighed, watching the two women perform W.A.P at the 2021's Grammys, "They are hardly wearing clothes and have the audacity to dance like this on national television. And seeing how women strive to be them, looks like I'll be the only women left to truly love and respect myself."
"Amy, please go to hell and stop being a Pick Me," her friend, Joselin replied.
"Amy, please go to hell and stop being a Pick Me," her friend, Joselin replied.
by titi_kusha April 16, 2022
Get the Pick Memug. 
by username1234567898765434567890 November 7, 2023
Get the Pick Me Girlymug. by acerthedog April 28, 2024
Get the Pick me girlmug. When a girl does something for male validation. It can be bringing down others (girls in this situation), changing the way they act only when around boys (or changing their whole self just to please boys) and agreeing on sexist things they say towards women.
... said she belongs to the kitchen, she's such a Pick Me.
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!
by anonymous March 29, 2021
Get the Pick Memug.