This is the lesbian equivalent to the gay top or bottom, or giver or taker. One strums and one flicks.
Rachel: Hey there Sian, do you wanna be the strummer or the flicker tonight?
Sian: Hmmm...I fancy being a strummer tonight, but please can you flick me?
Sian: Hmmm...I fancy being a strummer tonight, but please can you flick me?
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