Is a woman of younger age to moderately older age, who can hold her own, is tough, sassy, spunky, if it came down to it, she could whoop a guy's butt and not even think twice. It's nothing more than a definable female who can take care of herself and doesn't need a 'man' to protect her.
She's a scraper and knows how to take care of herself.
A scraper is a person who tries to muscle in on action that they are not involved in. It could be a picture, whereby somebody shoves themselves into a photo without intention by the photographer, or somebody who tries to join in enthusiastically on a conversation which they know nothing about.
Person 1: 'Did you see Jane's skirt the other day!'
Person 2: 'yeah atrocious'
Scraper: 'omg yeah' (scraper did not see Jane's skirt)
Also in CA. refers to a house that has no real value (beyond the value of the land it's on.) When bought, often torn down and replaced. i.e. house is scraped off the lot .
the real estate agentsaid that one's a real scraper