Fruit Fly

A fruit fly can also be a person of either gender who hangs out gay men and/or lesbians.

Basically a unisex fag hag.

Jesse goes to Pride every year, he's such a fruit fly.

by Mr. F. May 19, 2009

Fruit Fly

A straight Male that hangs out with lesbians.

Fag hags get one term, straight males have there own when they hang out with Lesbians.

Hey that guy is a fruit fly.

by JBronc May 15, 2011

Fruit Fly

A woman who leads her gays. A fag hag is a woman who follows her gays. A clear example can be found at www.fruitflylife.com

"I feel awkward using a woman's restroom at this gay bar. Only a fag hag would need the privacy. A fruit fly does not mind pissing in front of horny naked gay men."

by courtney nichols September 21, 2008

Large-breasted fruit fly

A woman who is endowed with large breasts who enjoys the company of gay men.

George was distracted by a "large-breasted fruit fly" while trying to pick up a trick at the bar.

by QueerChicken June 27, 2011

Fruit Fly

Typically a woman who is not enjoyed, but posters gay men because they are perceived to be "harmless".
Most gay men only use this term ironically with their women friends because it is actually a slur meant to discourage annoying cisheteronormative women from being in their presence. (see: Karen)

God, She's so out of touch her questions are literally homophobic. She's so stupid she can't realize she's being an annoying fruit fly.

by Bitch, Don't. March 28, 2023

Fruit Fly

Fruit Fly is word used to describe heterosexual men that hangs out with and/or around gay or bisexual men. Some claim they do this for the sole reason of the attention they get, others claim it is because they are in fact curious to homosexual expierences (bi/cock-curious). Others will say it's both or for none of these and that they simply just enjoy the company of gay men.
Therefore this would be the male counterpart to the a heterosexual woman doing the same thing, mostly refered to as a Fag Hag
Fruit Fly because they are flies that circles around Fruits

"That guy is such a fruit fly, he's just loves the attention he gets around gay guys"

"That guy is so cock-curious! He claims he's straight though, maybe he's a fruitfly that just enjoys the sweet aroma and attention of fruits, but I think both"

by ThisTroy December 17, 2019

Fruit Fly

The young version of a fag-hag.

There's always a fruit fly hovering around the gay boys at the cafeteria.

by Gator711 October 15, 2022