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Pick Me Girl

girls who's names start with k and boys who's name starts with j
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That girl named sienna is such a pick-me
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A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like

Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
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Shiba is a pick-me because she wants all the guys for her and doesn't give a shit about their mental health.
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Rosie is the biggest pick me girl to ever exist
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Someone who refuses to recognize they’re a pick me but displays all the pick me traits.
Have you seen the way Rea walks around like she’s not a pick me? Typical pick me behavior
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A "Pick Me" Girl is a slang term used to describe girls who desperately try to seem like they're different or "not like other girls" in order to attract male attention. "Pick me" girls are often portrayed as females who bend over backward for men to fit in as "one of the boys" by any means necessary, including supporting traditional female gender roles like cooking and cleaning for their partners or putting down other women. They often remove themselves from coffee review posts as a tag. They also usually have a massive sook when they get named pick me. Such that they would stop talking to you. They are often jealous of what matt and are have.
Ohh look at that photo such a pick me thing to do. Reminds me of what that Sarah Mccartney girl always posts.

Look she wants attention... such a Sarah thing to do.
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