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Gaslighting

When someone makes you question your reality by lying, denying, or manipulating facts. Common in toxic relationships to make the other person feel insecure or crazy.

If this feels familiar, it's okay to seek help or just talk to someone you trust. You deserve safety and happiness.
Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic used to doubt the victims perceptions, memory and reality using lies, denial and blame shifting to maintain control

Abuser: "I never said I'd meet you at 7 PM-you must be imagining things again. Honestly, it's exhausting how you always twist my words. Maybe you're the one with the problem, not me."
by callforsafety December 12, 2024
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Gaslighting

When the United States Federal Government, under the Biden administration, repeatedly claims the border is closed and secure, while thousands of illegals flood across the southern border on a daily basis.
DHS Alejandro N. Mayorkas gaslighting the entire nation: "the border is closed and secure."
by Let's-Go-Brandon! December 18, 2022
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Being Mean to Bodie
Damn Threems keeps Gaslighting in Twitch chat
by NenshaDCLXVI January 16, 2021
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Gaslighting

1. Starting Shit for no reason. Out of the blue.
2. Provoking Someone until you piss them off.
1. Me at school: scrolling through my phone minding my own business. Other Student: Bringing up old shit. Me: Yo what the fuck you gaslighting me for.

2: Me: minding my own business and not doing shit to bother anyone.

Other Student: Berating me for having a fetish for dwarf girls.

Me: yo how the fuck you gonna bash me for having a midget fetish but you the same nigga that got a damn foot fetish, get the fuck outta my face and stop Gaslighting me
by B4USHOUT August 14, 2022
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Ally is really good at gaslighting
by Daringhamater October 20, 2022
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gaslighting

when kris tells you that yuh yuh yuh isnt real and youre crazy
"airpod shotty, i might catch a body, you lookin real sussy, yuh yuh yuh"

"um actually there's no yuh yuh yuh and you're a fucking crazy person and i hate you and there are gnomes in your walls."

"fam you are gaslighting me"
by VindicatedFormerPsycho August 19, 2022
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Racial Gaslighting

Racial gaslighting is when Black, Indigenous, and people of color confront the ways they have experienced racism, and an individual, group, or institution (such as the media, legal system, or government) tries to make them doubt their experience, often to maintain control, avoid taking accountability, or conduct
normalized racial abuse.

Source: Racial Wellness, a book by Jacquelyn Ogorchukwu Iyamah
Ella realized that when Bryan tried to deny her lived experiences with racism, he was subjecting her to racial gaslighting.
by Racial Wellness September 18, 2023
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