In some circles this is an insulting name when it’s used to refer to a man. It functions as a more discreet and marginally less derogatory way of saying an extreme femimale or the biggest faggot .
This meaning stems from the reference to that Durian has been nicknamed the “King of Fruits.” Which in actuality could of been a rather cool nickname if it wasn’t for FRUIT having extremely well known slang meanings that can be highly offensive to both men and women:
- a
flaming homosexual or queer man
- a man seen as being feminine due to being outwardly
flamboyant.
- a man perceived as somewhat queer, who also is seen as stereotypically girly because of other
personality traits like; hypersensitivity, weakness, whines, emotional frailness, or being emotionally over-affected rather than handling.
So a “King of Fruits” or “Durian” would be Royally Fruit-like and more so than anyone else the speaker knows
Bob: “Oh great, there comes Derek, or should I say Durian. I could do without his
verbose spiels about what his new dainty diet or what his shoes are made of”
Barbra: “Shut up Bob, he’s talked about those things
literally only once and it only lasted
two minutes”