It’s supposed to mean someone who is involuntarily celibate, but it actually means someone who is in that boat who holds misogynistic views. This word should be seen as offensive like a slur because not everyone who is involuntarily celibate is a bad person. Just because someone hasn't had sex yet or hasn't had any luck in dating doesn't mean they're a bad person.
Man, I hate the word “incel”. It pisses me off so much. Anyone who uses it as an insult is a fucking asshole. Plain and simple. Just because someone hasn't had sex doesn't mean that they're bad. Not everyone is lucky when it comes to dating. I understand people usually use it to call out people who say bad things about women, but I disagree with using that word. We shouldn't stoop to their level. Yes, I'm involuntarily celibate, but I will never wish to rape or sexually harm someone like that. That's fucked up. Also, why the fuck do you care about someone’s sex life? Mind your own sex life. Enjoy yourself.
by AntiCircumcisionMan January 22, 2026
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Unlike the standard noun 'incel,' being incelian refers more to the rhetoric or 'energy' a person projects—specifically a cynical or 'black-pilled' outlook on dating and social hierarchy. A person can be described as incelian regardless of their actual relationship status, simply by adopting the specific ideological framework and attitudes associated with the group.
Unlike the standard noun 'incel,' being incelian refers more to the rhetoric or 'energy' a person projects—specifically a cynical or 'black-pilled' outlook on dating and social hierarchy. A person can be described as incelian regardless of their actual relationship status, simply by adopting the specific ideological framework and attitudes associated with the group.
"I’m just venting because I’m frustrated with dating apps, I’m not trying to be an incelian."
"The movie’s main character has a very incelian outlook on life, feeling like he’s been left behind by society."
"Stop being so incelian, Greg. Just because she didn't text back doesn't mean the world is rigged against you."
"The movie’s main character has a very incelian outlook on life, feeling like he’s been left behind by society."
"Stop being so incelian, Greg. Just because she didn't text back doesn't mean the world is rigged against you."
by FastWolf January 31, 2026
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Incel: I can't get this girl to go on a date with me.
Dumbass Friend: Have you tried following her everywhere she goes?
Incel: Great idea, I'll try that.
Dumbass Friend: Have you tried following her everywhere she goes?
Incel: Great idea, I'll try that.
by Boring MN guy. February 12, 2025
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"Have you heard from Tim"
"Nah, not in years since he became incelated after being rejected on tinder on that single bad date"
"Nah, not in years since he became incelated after being rejected on tinder on that single bad date"
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A poignantly dimwitted incel who enjoys displaying both his misogyny and his ignorance by making overly generalized slags or jokes about men's prowess and women's naïvety in any number of computer contexts -- building, programming, gaming, etc.
Incel posts to an IT group that welcomes people of all genders: "Girls choose their laptops by case color. Men choose their laptops by insert litany of blingy yet technologically pedestrian tech specs!"
Seasoned tech woman: "OK, Inceleron!" (rolls eyes)
Seasoned tech woman: "OK, Inceleron!" (rolls eyes)
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