Mentality of submissive or empathetically biased men (usually simps, fuckboy/pickupers/incels, whiteknights) - self-validating with, being proud of, dependent on and excessively worrying about female attention & perception of them, their own 'body count' & desirability, as well as societal validation from it (regardless of the type of relationship he's having, or his position in it).
Implies the guy has close to none filter (would sex any woman that offers) - directly proportional to it.
It's their life purpose/goal/prize, as well as their intrusive biased projections onto other men (empathy bias also prevents them from thinking otherwise).
They're often projecting this mentality at others - assuming others also have vaglidation goals - seeing everything they do or say through the lens of 'it has to be an attempt at getting laid'.
Implies the guy has close to none filter (would sex any woman that offers) - directly proportional to it.
It's their life purpose/goal/prize, as well as their intrusive biased projections onto other men (empathy bias also prevents them from thinking otherwise).
They're often projecting this mentality at others - assuming others also have vaglidation goals - seeing everything they do or say through the lens of 'it has to be an attempt at getting laid'.
by veinsofgold November 20, 2024
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Person 1: Hey look at that spa advert, it's showing something called a validation facial
Person 2: That's nice. Somebody tells you over and over that you're beautiful as they are spaffing all over your face... sounds like a wholesome experience
Person 2: That's nice. Somebody tells you over and over that you're beautiful as they are spaffing all over your face... sounds like a wholesome experience
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A deliberately lobbed social media post tossed right down the middle, inviting former teammates, casual acquaintances, and long-forgotten rivals to unload a barrage of compliments. Typically disguised as hesitation (e.g., “not sure I wanna but…”) despite the poster refreshing the comments like it’s a tie game in the 7th.
Andrew just threw a Validation Slow Pitch on Facebook, opened with ‘not sure I wanna but…’ and by midnight the comments section looked like a postgame award ceremony.
by Corey Daul February 3, 2026
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Example: "Light takes the path of least time—a variational principle. His route-planning algorithm used the same idea: find the optimal path, minimize cost. Variational Systems worked beautifully when optimization was the goal. But human behavior wasn't always optimal; sometimes people chose worse paths for reasons the model couldn't capture. The model worked; reality didn't always cooperate."
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It sounds like a mashup of “isle unto thyself” another song in Hawaii part 2, “murders” in the same album. With a part that is also literally just ruler of everything by tally hall.
It sounds like a mashup of “isle unto thyself” another song in Hawaii part 2, “murders” in the same album. With a part that is also literally just ruler of everything by tally hall.
Guy 1: hey dude look at that cloud with variations on it
miracle musical fan: VARIATIONS ON A CLOUD REFERENCE???
miracle musical fan: VARIATIONS ON A CLOUD REFERENCE???
by Mintymondos June 21, 2025
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She kept chasing after likes on social media, seeking validation instead of trusting her own abilities.
by Emotional Cruiser September 21, 2025
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• Constant need for praise and attention
• Self-focused; conversations center on their needs
• Frequent complaining and victimhood
• Little emotional reciprocity
• Blames others for their problems
• Leaves others feeling drained
How they drain energy:
• People-pleasing as a way to earn validation
• Creating drama or crises to attract attention
• Relying on others for continuous emotional reassurance
• Constant need for praise and attention
• Self-focused; conversations center on their needs
• Frequent complaining and victimhood
• Little emotional reciprocity
• Blames others for their problems
• Leaves others feeling drained
How they drain energy:
• People-pleasing as a way to earn validation
• Creating drama or crises to attract attention
• Relying on others for continuous emotional reassurance
She avoids spending too much time with him because he turns every interaction into an opportunity to feed his inner validation vampire.
by Chiefee42 November 8, 2025
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