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A “bate” is a date where the primary intent is a casual hookup or a one-night stand. Unlike a “plate,” where there is little expectation, a “bate” is more direct in its purpose. The term plays on the phonetic swap from “date” to “bate” (a nod to the slang for masturbation), emphasizing its sexual nature. A date can start as a standard “date” and naturally turn into a “bate.”
Jamie: “So, how was your date?”
Jordan: “Oh, it ended up being more of a bate, we both knew what we wanted.”

Sophie: “Are you going on a date with that guy from the bar?”
Claire: “A date? Nah, he's cute but all I want with him is just a bate.”
bate by neyiox February 1, 2025
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Bate Rate 

Defined as jerking off for an hourly rate. Coined originally by Eslizza.
Bate rate? That’s your day rate.
Bate Rate by Eslizza March 15, 2025
A Bateha is Someone that Can't think of a Basic Word Or Thing When They're in a Conversation
Guy 1: Yo dude I Can't Remember Where I UH uh uh
Guy 2: What??
Guy 1: I Can't remember it but its a Basic Word
Guy 2: man You're a Bateha
Guy 1: THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN
Bateha by TheLuckyScammer January 8, 2026
When some one really likes to bitch and moan
"god she is such a Boaner, all he does is bitch and moan about the workout"
Boaner by Grungeaholic April 2, 2026

Batebaiting

An action where someone deliberately seduces or teases another person with the specific intention of causing them to masturbate, often without any further physical involvement. It's the art of getting someone so worked up through flirting, visuals, or suggestive behavior that they have no choice but to go home and furiously bate to the thought of you.
She kept sending him those tight outfit selfies and whispering dirty hints all nighttotal batebaiting. Dude probably jerked off three times before he even got home.

tar beater 

n. Someone that runs on the road as opposed to running on a soft surface like a track.
Poor guy was a tar beater for so long his legs got worn out.
tar beater by CTrunr March 25, 2003