A “bate” is a date where the primary intent is a casual hookup or a one-night stand. Unlike a “plate,” where there is little expectation, a “bate” is more direct in its purpose. The term plays on the phonetic swap from “date” to “bate” (a nod to the slang for masturbation), emphasizing its sexual nature. A date can start as a standard “date” and naturally turn into a “bate.”
Jamie: “So, how was your date?”
Jordan: “Oh, it ended up being more of a bate, we both knew what we wanted.”
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Sophie: “Are you going on a date with that guy from the bar?”
Claire: “A date? Nah, he's cute but all I want with him is just a bate.”
A Bateha is Someone that Can't think of a Basic Word Or Thing When They're in a Conversation
Guy 1: Yo dude I Can't Remember Where I UH uh uh Guy 2: What??
Guy 1: I Can't remember it but its a Basic Word
Guy 2: man You're a Bateha
Guy 1: THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN
An action where someone deliberately seduces or teases another person with the specific intention of causing them to masturbate, often without any further physical involvement. It's the art of getting someone so worked up through flirting, visuals, or suggestive behavior that they have no choice but to go home and furiously bate to the thought of you.
She kept sending him those tight outfit selfies and whispering dirty hints all night — total batebaiting. Dude probably jerked off three times before he even got home.