ferocity by proxy 

A (habitual) condition in which a person is angered vicariously through another's unfavorable situation. Oftentimes, the person with the condition completely absorbs the situation as his/her own.

Don't let James find out that your girlfriend is cheating on you, he suffers from ferocity by proxy. He will kill her!

ferocity by proxy by Prof. Kyle January 26, 2011

shut up by proxy 

The act of telling somebody to lower their voice via the use of another person, typically over text.

Jane and Bob are having a heated discussion in Paul's office while he is trying to work. Paul sends an SMS to Sam (Jane's boyfriend who lives out of state) asking Sam to text Jane to tell her to shut up because she's talking too loudly. Jane has been asked to shut up by proxy.

shut up by proxy by middy_pn April 19, 2014

Buttmunchausen by Proxy 

A mental disorder in which a person repeatedly and deliberately tries to gain sympathy for fake problems with a friend or loved one's butt.

David's roommate didn't sit on a nail, he's just back on his Buttmunchausen by Proxy bullshit.

Buttmunchausen by Proxy by DoogieMcButtButt February 12, 2020

exhibitionist-by-proxy 

A Kink

When a husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, or any romantic partner gets off exposing their partner, or any one private part of their body naked to friends.

example, pulling the strings on your wifes bikini while she is asleep on the beach, then startle her when someone goes by.

Alternative Kink included would be Flashing by Proxy

My husband is a exhibitionist-by-proxy, he gets off showing me topless or flashing me totally naked to his friends and sometimes a stranger.

exhibitionist-by-proxy by kinksearcher March 17, 2020

Design Proxy 

A customizable character made on a video game for the sole purpose of the design, often to be deleted as soon as the design has been transferred onto paper, an art program, an image hosting web site, etc.

"I made Alyte on Soul Calibur 3, but I'm not going to use her cos the weapons for her Class suck horribly. She's such a Design Proxy."

Design Proxy by Kylias March 10, 2009

drunk-facebooking by proxy 

The act of drunkenly communicating with someone indirectly on Facebook, either by posting to a mutual friend's page or updating your status. Typically occurs after fights or break-ups.

Tom: What's up with Kristen's Facebook status? It says "Can't believe how things work out sometimes... Guess some people can never make up their minds."

Jane: She's drunk-facebooking by proxy. She just wants to show Will she thinks their break-up is his fault.

Tom: Is that what she was doing yesterday when her status said something about drinking away her troubles?

Jane: Exactly. You have sure mastered the meaning of drunk-facebooking by proxy

drunk-facebooking by proxy by allegrad July 1, 2009

sex by proxy

This occurs when someone with whom you have recently had sex also recently had sex previously with a "third party". You are then said to have had sex with third party by proxy.

Jim: Hey, Ted, you know that Julie chick you were bangin' last night? Ted: "Yeah"
Jim: Man, she has been doing that nasty dred locked gansta, Willie, for a month.
Ted: So?
Jim: Ah Man, you had sex by proxy with the dred man.

sex by proxy by scarlettleftthebuilding January 29, 2009