When a person gaslights you into feeling or looking vulnerable or needy for their fake help and hence, inferior. It's a way of domineering over you by establishing a power dynamic where they get to control your life, order you around and you're supposed to feel grateful to be treated like a dog. May be part of a smear campaign, triangulation and poisoning the well of your general reputation. Common to narcissists but everyone has done this at some point, we usually grow out of it after school. They will interrogate you for slander and ruin under the guise of politeness. Social sabotage and attempted social murder.
e.g. "I'm just worried about you" or "are you okay? you seem XYZ" Classic form of concern trolling, weaponised by controlling men and women who otherwise have no recourse to control you in that situation. May speak to you like an abusive parent to a naughty child. Boundary violation is the purpose.
"People have been talking about you so I just came to check how you are." Triangulation method, they're the problem. They are smearing you.
"You look terrible/tired" or "You seem so sad, secretly, can I help?" Interference and belittlement gaslights.
"Are you SURE you're okay?" wearing you down with resistance to their interrogations. Happens in the workplace too.
"People have been talking about you so I just came to check how you are." Triangulation method, they're the problem. They are smearing you.
"You look terrible/tired" or "You seem so sad, secretly, can I help?" Interference and belittlement gaslights.
"Are you SURE you're okay?" wearing you down with resistance to their interrogations. Happens in the workplace too.
by paint88 July 01, 2024
I have concernment for you
by threeisamagicnumber March 16, 2022
by Thecoolestguyeverrrrr February 17, 2025
A person that puts a ton of concern on something that isn't related directly or indirectly related to them, this person is usually a pessimist and an overthinker (May or may not be thinking of multiple scenarios in their head).
After realizing their mistake they will usually feel stupid or guilty when it is revealed.
After realizing their mistake they will usually feel stupid or guilty when it is revealed.
Person 1 : I'm gonna buy something from 7 / 11 wait here.
Person 2 : Ok
Person 2's Mind : (Someone's gonna rob the place and shoot him or maybe he trips and falls on his head on a sharp object)
Person 1 : I'm back
Person 2 : Fuck, I feel so stupid for worrying
Person 1 : Stop placing unnecessary concern on stupid shit
Person 2 : Ok
Person 2's Mind : (Someone's gonna rob the place and shoot him or maybe he trips and falls on his head on a sharp object)
Person 1 : I'm back
Person 2 : Fuck, I feel so stupid for worrying
Person 1 : Stop placing unnecessary concern on stupid shit
by just_a_guy_with_a_p3n1$ May 12, 2022
by AgainstTransHate August 26, 2024
by Arminkshipper July 21, 2024
Bob: Take my liver.
Gary Miller: Concern juice.
Bob: Lol. Your now concerned, loser.
Gary Miller: Can I still have your liver though?
Bob: Only if you finish your concern juice.
Gary Miller finishes his concern juice and takes Bob's liver.
Then you make-out.
The End.
Bob: I love you, Gary Miller.
Gary Miller: I love you too, Bob.
Gary Miller: Concern juice.
Bob: Lol. Your now concerned, loser.
Gary Miller: Can I still have your liver though?
Bob: Only if you finish your concern juice.
Gary Miller finishes his concern juice and takes Bob's liver.
Then you make-out.
The End.
Bob: I love you, Gary Miller.
Gary Miller: I love you too, Bob.
by Starry Soleil November 22, 2021