The latest trend of metrosexuals seem to be found in the postal service. The "tough guys" have found that women no longer gravitate to that species but rather a
man who is willing to show his feminine side, to be in touch with his feelings, and to be able to display emotion. And, of course, a
man who takes pride in his appearance (clothes, hair, nails, scent~and not afraid to wear lavender) is always going to be noticed.
In a business sense, if your
heart is not in what you do, then you are fighting a losing battle. You must be passionate in your
work and always show others that you genuinely care about their well-being. By doing this, you gain respect and a
loyal following of your peers. You will always be successful in your endeavors if
people know you are speaking from the heart. Without your heart, you have nothing.
Note: Metrosexuals have been confused with being
gay, which isn't so terrible. And sometimes, you will find a gay
man trying to pass himself off as a metrosexual because he cannot find the courage to "come out of the closet" for fear of embarassment. All that
man would have to do is be honest with his
friends because they usually already have figured out his preferences and are fine with that.
To find a metrosexual in the postal service, look around the room. When you spot the
man in the Oleg Cassini suit with a lavender shirt and fancy matching tie (no boring solids, stripes, or dots), shoes shined, every strand of hair in place, and emitting the scent of PI by Givenchy or Jean Paul Gaultier you have probably found your
man. If you are lucky enough to spot one carrying a
man-bag, that is the
man you want to get to know. However, if when you approach him and he can only speak of
work, sports, or golfing, be careful, you might have been duped.