1. a gay man who gives it in the rear and takes it in the throat, but not in the rear.
2. the dominating partner in a gay sexual relationship, usually calling the shots as to when he performs oral sex, when oral sex is performed on him, and when intercourse takes place.
Oral top: Hey man, when we hook up first I'm going to deep throat you and then I'm going to give it to you doggy style.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)