Related to backpussy and pussy-whipped. A gay enjoys his backpussy in his sexual relationships, but when he is being emotionally and socially dominated by his partner in every aspect of his life, unfortunately he is being backpussy-whipped.
Karen: I think Sam is really backpussy-whipped.
Stephen: I agree with you. His boyfriend forced him to go to the drag queen's convention.
Karen: Poor thing, that wig looked really bad on him.
Steve: "Why is John alone watching Bruce with JD and coke in the other room when Brooke wants him so bad."
Alex: "Cuz John is king of the no ball pussy losers."