A game in which a group of males see who can get the most women in a set amount of time (usually over Summer). Points are often assigned for different things (sex counts for a large amount, while oral sex may only be half the points, though it varies). Whoever can total up the most points by the end of the set time wins "The Man's Game".
The boys and I played The Man's Game last Summer. Jack had sex with a few girls so he got 45 points. John only hooked up with one girl so he came in at 15 points. I happened to be on a hot streak and racked up 75 points.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”