a
fuck boy is someone who says āiām bad at relationshipsā as if itās nearly an absolute truth. a
fuck boy is also someone who is just sooo emotional that he cannot deal with it:
āi canāt even.ā āi just canāt.ā āthis is too much for me.ā
he, the
fuck boy, is fundamentally confused and is unsure of what he wants. however, he will seemingly sincerely play like he is more involved or enamored than he actually is in interest of getting romantic attention and scratching the romantic/sex itch. he is superficially intimate, as if acting from a script he knows all too well.
fuck boy operates from a superficial level of consciousness and although he will seem like he is connected time will show you that he never was.
he does not care about the details of your day, your friends or family, the beautiful complexity of your essence.
fuck boy is unable to truly respect and be present with any woman he is with. he has a hard time respecting women as whole human beings and furthermore he lacks self-awareness about this.
āfuckboyā continued: he thinks quite highly of himself and how he operates in the world but he continues to inevitably and regrettably lament, with remarkable futility, just how bad he is at relationships.
fuck boys are usually idealizing something or someone from the past ā likely another
woman that he undervalued or disrespected in a former relationship. and the
fuck boy is just so emotional about it.
he will live in the past or idealize the future ā but the
fuck boy will never embrace the
joy of what is in front of him. the complexity of the present is just too much to bareā¦
but thatās neither here nor there because the
fuck boy basically does not like thinking about his feelings right now.
so, heāll go on dreaming of a past thatās long gone or of a future that will never come. he will always disappoint. beware. fuck boys often seem special and endearing at firstā¦until you find out that heās a fucking
fuck boy. and, by the time you find out youāve already fallen for him and bought into a persona he effortlessly projects. you like that he didnāt come on too strong but came on strong enough. fuck boys are often superficially very enjoyable people so you have a sense that heās great company. when his coldness and distance emerges you will feel shock and heartache. endure it. remember, youāve been fooled. be grateful upon realizing the
fuckery of the
fuck boy because, my sister, you just dodged a bullet. run and donāt look back.
