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Query Shaming 

The act of characterizing someone's SQL queries as inefficient.
Our database administrator (DBA) while reporting on why our server was slow proceeded to engage in some query shaming Ted's queries.
In today's staff meeting our DBA spoke directely to Ted in order to query shame him about some of the queries he had written.
Query Shaming by Mike Josephson November 1, 2018

Donation Shaming 

Donation shaming is the act of shaming a person's donation calling it "small" compared to their own net-worth in belief they should donate larger amounts.
Person 1: Wow billionaire (name here) only donated 999 million but they are worth a trillion!

Person 2: wow, that's donation shaming bro
Donation Shaming by NUBBYNUB June 17, 2020

White Shaming

When minorities rag on white people for being outside the loop or cringe because of their whiteness. This can be done to white homies to bust their balls, or to entitled white trash to show them their place. White shaming becomes less fun when white people fo it to themselves.
Minority homie “aye white homie, i bet your ancestors owned slaves didn’t they”
White homie “ahhh, i get it, your white shaming me”

White lady: *prounces literally any word in spanish and gets it wrong

White lady “oooh! I’m so white!”
White Shaming by Mahalo7 January 7, 2021

uwu shaming

Shaming anything pertaining to uwu behavior (with some respect)
That e-girl is straight up uwu shaming the other e-girl
Will I be uwu shamed for wearing a cat ear hoodie?
uwu shaming by yotopia October 21, 2021

Diva-Shaming

Diva-Shaming is the practice of criticizing people, especially women and girls, who are perceived to violate expectations of behavior and appearance regarding issues related to their personality and style. The term is used to reclaim the word diva and empower women and girls to have and embrace their individual identity.

Examples of diva-shaming include being criticized or outcasted for: over dressing, being different, pampering themselves, being confident, smelling good, looking good, wearing makeup, being curvy, standing out, wearing false lashes, wearing acrylic nails, wearing sunglasses indoors, wearing high heels, having a lot of clothes, being particular, having preferences, over packing, wearing wigs, frequently changing hair styles, etc

Common Statements that can be offensive to divas: “Your doing too much.”, “Your so extra.“, “Keep it simple.”, “Why are you so dressed up?”, “You have too many clothes.”, “How do you wipe your butt with those long nails?”, “Your hair is so long, does it ever fall in the toilet?”, “How do you walk in those heel? They are so unhealthy.” “Do you ever wear your real hair?”
Diva-Shamer: “Omg girl we are just going to the grocery store. Why are you so dressed up?

Diva: “Sis, stop with the diva-shaming. That energy is killing the vibes.”
Diva-Shaming by Divabrat January 2, 2022

Slut shaming

A term some hoe made up for fucking too much. Applies to males and females
Slut shaming her/him is wrong! He/she only slept with 2 million people.
Slut shaming by Thickbitch68 March 13, 2017