Assholery is when you’re an asshole to the point where it’s unbearable. A great example of this definition is Stan Marsh from South Park.
The amount of assholery from Stan Marsh was unbearable, especially when he forced Token to forgive him, making him feel like he was the ambassador of all black people, it was a pretty dick move
Assholery BAPMFR: Y'all don't need to sweat it cuz he knows he's a BAPMFR asshole, and girls tired of his ride. Not our fault that he's bald either. Karma dude, duh... but since he's privileged his crazy mama will still pat him on that bald old white man's privileged head and tell him he's special.