A Hoedonk is when you bring a girl back to your place for the explicit purpose of one-nighting her, only to find that she was doing the same thing to you...
Yo man, Ian got Hoedonked by that fly bitch last night
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.