Definitions by namiida-kun

Winners love winning 

A meme made by @ihatebodhi on TikTok where they misunderstood the abbreviation ‘WLW.’ Has been coined by the sapphic community to joke about happy WLW relationships (sometimes ‘losing’ refers to toxic/failure WLW relationships.)

If ‘winners love winning’ why are they always losing?

Winners love winning by namiida-kun August 1, 2025

Nm 

Non-man; anything outside of the male label (non-binary, woman, agender, etc.)

Wlnm is for women who date any category aside from men.

Nm by namiida-kun August 1, 2025

Nblnb

Short for a non-binary loving non-binary relationship.

We need more NBLNB relationships in media!

Nblnb by namiida-kun August 1, 2025

Video Speichern 

German for ‘Save Video/Video Record.’
Typically sourced from the “Okay Garmin, Video Speichern“ meme, which records heinous car accidents and public struggles—all recorded by ‘Garmin’, at the prompt of the car driver.

“Okay Garmin—Video speichern. Der war schön rot.”

Video Speichern by namiida-kun August 1, 2025

Big Age

A term used to emphasize someone’s age—typically an older person when they’re doing something childish/idiotic.

You’re fighting with tweens for candy bars… at your BIG age!

Big Age by namiida-kun August 1, 2025

Bffr 

Short for ‘Be Fucking For Real’; a more agitated version of ‘Be For Real.’ It’s used to express disbelief and exasperation with someone.

You’re still watching that kid’s show at your big age? Bffr.

Bffr by namiida-kun August 1, 2025

! 

When something is extremely concerning or astonishing (basically text slang)

Random Person: Hey, did you do the homework
Random incompetent person: !
Random Person: You didn't do it, did you?

! by namiida-kun December 7, 2022