Definitions by _The Secret_

Eminem 

Thee greatest of all time, spits licks like nobody else. Someone who saved you through hard times

Eminem was there in a time of need, with words that brought you out of the dark hole you were in.

Eminem by _The Secret_ April 15, 2020

teachers' conference 

An annual event in most educational jurisdictions, ostensibly for the presentation and discussion of educational research developments, and to satisfy educationists' professional development requirements. However, the true function of the seminars, held over weekends in five-star hotels, is to foster an atmosphere of intellectual curiosity, to kindle group learning experiences, and foment pedagogical stimulation between teaching colleagues, away from the constricting influence of family, work, and routines.

Judith paused and turned to stare at a sparrow fluttering under the eaves outside the window. She could not remember how many men were in the spa bath that night in her luxury hotel suite on the last night of the teachers' conference, her memory of the watery group encounter was just a champagne and cocktail-fuelled haze. All she knew is that now, four week's later, the pregnancy test was positive. How could she explain things to her husband? They hadn't had relations for years. Were there five men, or six? That ancient bearded professor had been at the back of the queue, she remembered that...
"Miss, oh,Miss.." one of her literature students calling out snapped her out of her reverie....
What the hell was she going to do now?

teachers' conference by _The Secret_ April 15, 2020

Under the night sky 

When you gaze into the nightsky in thee early hours of the morning with that someone dear to your heart and see several shooting stars and sheet lightning in the distance, and a funny feeling comes over you. You feel butterflies inside, like a sign from God.

When you develop an infatuation for someone you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. It doesn't need to be a good reason. Taking photographs under the night sky, for example. Now, in the long run, that's just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to split up. But in the haze of infatuation, it's just what you've been searching for all these years.

Under the night sky by _The Secret_ March 30, 2020

Crony 

The person you want in your life forever, someone you built a strong connection with through an extremely rough time. You grew together, and although you had hard times together you both learnt and grew stronger as people.

You said some hurtful things to her/him, but none of it you meant. You'd made false allegations to hurt her/him without thinking of how that might affect them. It most likely started out of pain from something they did early on in the relationship. Your frustration has turned to some hurtful things.

You came in to each others lives for a reason, a good reason.

I want you in my life forever. There is so much more to you and I. We no longer need to hurt each other, a kiss and a cuddle is a lot easier. Try it.

Crony I am prepared to be vulnerable for you.

Crony by _The Secret_ March 25, 2020

Ask no questions hear no lies 

A term used by someone with the intent to lie.

Guy: Have you cheated?

Girl: ask no questions hear no lies

Guy: wtf, so you have?

Girl: (says nothing)

Girl: I'm not even sorry

Guy: **heart breaks** again

Ask no questions hear no lies by _The Secret_ March 25, 2020

Frenetic 

Frenetic:

fast and energetic in a rather wild and uncontrolled way

Frenetic:

Not based on a particular person.

Frenetic by _The Secret_ February 25, 2020

Love Language 

There are 5 Love Languages.

More than one love language can apply to any one person.

Understanding is the key to forming a long lasting bond and relationship.

Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Your eyebrows look great today".

Gifts – a gift says, “she thinks of me".

Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.

Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.

Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.

Importantly, Express your love language (sign of affirmation) with your partner or friends.

Love Language by _The Secret_ February 25, 2020