5 definitions by Jaja Dannevik

struggle bandit

Typically black men who are career criminals, committing crimes such as burglary, assault, robbery, etc. They are repeat offenders and spend most of their adult life in prison. They use having a criminal record as an excuse to not work or take care of their children. They are delusional in the belief that they only get arrested for crimes they commit due to systemic racism. They don't comply with police and sometimes the outcome is deadly. They are lazy, shiftless, entitled and feel like the whole world owes them something because their ancestors were slaves. They are sociopaths who believe that they are incapable of doing anything wrong and that their failures in life are a result of racism. They don't take any accountability for their actions. They see how fatherlessness in the home destroys the lives of black children and they couldn't give a flying f*** about it. They are selfish, malignant narcissists who don't care about the well-being of the women and children in their communities. They don't value their women and either exploit, abuse them or take them for granted. They tend to abandon their children because they themselves did not have fathers growing up and sadistically would like to see their children suffer the same fate they have.

Nahla: "Hey, girl. Did you hear what happened to the lady next door?"
Shanna: "No. What happened?"
Nahla: "Jamal broke into her house, robbed her, then took off. The police are looking for him."
Shanna: "That's terrible what happened to her. I hope the police catch that struggle bandit."

by Jaja Dannevik October 21, 2021

three trash bags struggle dusty

Typically black men who are consistently unemployed. They usually have multiple children by multiple women and refuse to pay child support, protect or provide from them. They tend to mooch off of other family members, playing video games all day, smoking marijuana or using other illegal substances. They sleep on an air mattress with bugs crawling on the ceiling and are content with being complete failures in the black community. They are usually high school drop outs and sell drugs late at night calling themselves "street pharmacists." They have an inferiority complex and blame white men for it. They are angry about it and too afraid to challenge the dominance of white men in society so they date white women as a way to compete with white men and/or make white men angry. They usually want to be supported by the women they date and refuse to get a job. They use white supremacy as an excuse for their "plight." They carry around three metaphorical trash bags: "dereliction, degeneracy and drama". They like to call themselves "kings" but have no kingdom. They enjoy being in prison to sleep with other men and are ecstatic to have three free meals per day. They have no goals, aspirations or plans to make their communities safer. They are comfortable taking on a feminine role in the black community and expect black women to carry the weight of the black community while at the same time chastise them for being too "masculine."

Tanya: "Tyrone still owes me $150,000 in back child support because he won't get a job to help me support his children."
Shondra: "Girl, you know he ain't nothing but a three trash bags struggle dusty. He doesn't want to work because he's too lazy."

by Jaja Dannevik October 21, 2021

struggle preference

This term mainly refers to white women that are tricked by black men with an inferiority complex into believing that they prefer white women to black women. They date these black men and are brainwashed into thinking they are better than black women. These women are usually obese and insecure and as a result of not meeting the weight standard of white men in their community go over to the black community to compete with black women for black men. This gives them a false sense of importance and relevance. They believe that because they possess white skin that black men will treat them better than they treat black women. But they are met with a rude awakening when they find out that they got the same black man that black women get. They support the black men financially, are left single moms to half black children then take to social media, i.e. TikTok, to complain about their their deadbeat black baby daddies. This type of black man is typically described as a struggle dusty therefore the "preferred" white woman is a struggle preference.

Struggle preference: "Oh, my God, Becky. Tyrone is treating me the same way he treated his ex black girlfriends. He doesn't pay child support for our three daughters and he never visits them!"

Becky: "Wow. That is totally insane. I thought he said you were, like, more submissive and feminine than his black girlfriends..."

Struggle preference: "I know, right?! He made me think I was better. I'm starting to think it was all a lie. I feel used. I believed him so I supported him financially for two years while was unemployed!"

Becky: "So, okay, I didn't want to tell you this before you guys broke up but I totally saw him kissing a black girl at Six Flags while you were away visiting your parents in Vermont...while you were pregnant!

Struggle preference: Goes on TikTok to complain about the struggle dusty

by Jaja Dannevik October 21, 2021

struggle dusty

Term mainly used to describe black men who think women should submit to them while at the same time expecting the women to support them financially. They proceed to call the women "masculine" when they refuse to submit or ask them to get a job. They fail to provide and protect the women and children in their community as well as fail to keep black communities safe. They tend to prefer dating overweight white women claiming that they are more "submissive, generous and feminine" than black women while at the same time repeating history by leaving the white women single moms. They tell black women to "choose better" when they are abused or cheated on by their black boyfriend/husbands, but when these same black women date/marry white men they become infuriated. This is when the gas lighting toward black women begins and they take to social media to call them "bed wenches". They complain that black women are selling out and turning their backs on the black community, while at the same time praise other black men for dating non black women.

The term is used exchangeably with "three trash bag struggle dusty", "struggle bandit" or "remedial trash bag".

Shani: "Hey, girl. There was a struggle dusty that tried to hit on me when I was pumping gas at a gas station. He rode up on a bike and asked for my phone number. Then, asked me if I could give him $5 to clean the windshield of my Mercedes-Benz. I told him "no" and drove off."
Tatiana: (laughs) "Girl, you must have been suffocating from all the dust that was flying off of him."
Shani: "Right? Now, why would he think that I would lower my standards to be with a unemployed, remedial trash bag?"
Tatiana: "They must really think we are desperate. Their delusion is frightening."

by Jaja Dannevik October 21, 2021

remedial trash bag

Term used to describe black men who are either delusional, arrogant, lazy, unemployed and/or repeat prison offenders (or all of the above). They are the men who make communities unsafe for black women and children. They expect people to march and protest whenever a black man is shot by a white cop but say absolutely nothing about the black on black homicide rates in urban cities. They degrade black women to justify dating white women. They believe dating white women will make them closer in status to white men. They believe they are the most desirable men just because some white women give them the time of day. Black women are used as a scapegoat for the reason these men abandon their women and children. They compare themselves to black women and like to talk about their weaves. They are comfortable being losers and are completely useless in the black community. They expect black women to protect the entire black community and go 50/50 in a relationship. They love to reference 'The Moynihan Report' without having read the study because if they did read it they would no longer use it to support reasons for their personal failure. They claim to be oppressed and victims of white supremacy but fail to provide proof of any law that prohibits them from doing anything in this country that a white person can do.

Remedial trash bag: "White girls think that getting attention from black guys is a badge of honor."
White girlfriend: "We don't think getting attention from black guys gives you a status of some sort. If you get attention from the white guys you do have the status more than if you get attention from black guys."
Remedial trash bag: "As a man, I'm going to have to respectfully disagree." (chuckles)
White girlfriend: "Well, as a woman who gets attention and who grew up in a white culture more than a black culture, I'm going to tell you that getting attention from black guys is not a badge of honor it you're white."

Script taken from a real YouTube video

by Jaja Dannevik October 21, 2021