A wyrd kind human who genuinely seeks to help others through communication and creativity. If you meet EQ and feel like giving them a hug just make sure it is even, full and honest. EQ doesn’t like unbalanced anything, they will solve a problem before you even knew it was a problem. EQ is long winded and can be overwhelming and overwhelmed at times because EQ has Aspergers (aka autistic spectrum disorder). If you are compelled to find EQ you can find them on the weird couch.
A particular variation of the victim card in which a person gains sympathy or social status by amassing experiences of perceived sleights or injustices. Grievance-collecting can be entirely fabricated, true, or a mix of the two. Grievance-collectors can never forgive or see another side of the story, because surrendering any grievance would result in loss of power over other people. Grievance-collecting can be personal, or part of a politically correct group dynamic.
If you call her, she will be angry. If you don't call her, she will be angry. Either way, she gets what she wants, and it will be used against you - because she doesn't actually want to patch things up. She's just grievance-collecting.