The act of having sex with a person much older in age, who then hands you a delicious candy treat afterwards but scolds you for using bad grammar during the act.
Although he enjoyed the candy afterwards, the dark memory of being worthered by an older woman will haunt him forever.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.