A word the describes a want for something versus a need for something a form of expression a way of keeping a person. Even oneself from overly spending.
That dress and those shoes is a wanecessity, When I need to pay my light bill.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.