situationshipwreck

When a situationship becomes too confusing and mentally straining, so it's wrecked. You still can't climb out and are stuck in it, emotionally drowning.

"He tells me he loves me and wants to be with me, but doesn't feel it's enough for a relationship"
"But he also said he doesn't want you to date other people?”
"Yeah."
"Oh honey you need to get out, that's a situationshipwreck!"