to whatever it takes and don't give up on reconnecting with a lost friend - no matter how many times or issues there may be - search, mail, phone, internet - word of mouth! REFRIEND AND SPREAD THE LOVE.
After 26 years amazingly and a world away I was blessed with a refriend from a FES who regretted not returning my call in '83 and lost touch with me. OMG talk about feeling special and a refriend is just as good if not better than a friend, we all get busy - make a refriend today!
re-screwing a person you've already had a one-night-stand with, simply because the bar you were in was closing and you were desperate for a fuck. Especially used in towns with Taquerias.
"OK, don't laugh: but I had to settle for refried love last night. The bar was playing the get-out-song and I had to settle for... I forgot their name again. Man, was I desperate!"