the term “pick me” is a term used to refer to people who feed into narratives that are personally oppressive to them in an attempt to gain the approval, attention and/or validation of their oppressor. an example of this is a woman who puts down other women and feeds into misogynistic stereotypes in order to seem more appealing to sexist men in hopes of gaining their approval.
1. Becky always makes sexist jokes, makes fun of and shames rape victims, and shames other women when she’s around groups of men. Every time she’s around a guy- especially when she knows for sure he’s sexist- she will call other women dishwashers & go out of her way to put down the women around them with insults based in misogyny. She’s such a “pick me.
by casscafe April 27, 2021
a pick me is some annoying mf who does shit to “fit in” and instead of fitting in they just piss everyone off
pick me-*sings*
me - woah ur such a good singer
pick me - omg im so not stawp itt 👉🏻👈🏻
me - 🌝
also me - stupid pick me
me - woah ur such a good singer
pick me - omg im so not stawp itt 👉🏻👈🏻
me - 🌝
also me - stupid pick me
by THIS GRILLLLL 🤪😎✨🥵 January 29, 2022
A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me
Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!
Slightly rational person: Shut up psycho
Slightly rational person: Shut up psycho
by ♥🗺☠ July 20, 2021
Pick me boy: I really think that boys suck I mean all they think is about sex, I mean I am a boy but sometimes I hate being a boy sometimes I wish that I am a girl.
Not a pick me boy: Boy shut yo pick me ass up
Not a pick me boy: Boy shut yo pick me ass up
by SUSSY MAN XD XD July 21, 2021
a pick me is a person who says unusual or outrageous statements for the validation of a race,gender,or other people.
A male pick me would say“If you paint your nails that’s so gay” looking for validation from his friends.
by massapickme420 January 27, 2021
“jenni is such a pick me”
“OMG MY TITTIES ARE OUT GUYS THATS SO EMBARRASSING”
“jenni, nobody cares, you’re such a pick me”
“OMG MY TITTIES ARE OUT GUYS THATS SO EMBARRASSING”
“jenni, nobody cares, you’re such a pick me”
by $:&::&:& March 26, 2022
A "thot" of sorts...someone (mostly a female) who craves male validation; who craves the attention of all the boys in a 100-mile radius.
NOT a girl who has a different opinion than you or agrees with something that a guy says, that you don't agree with.
NOT a girl who has a different opinion than you or agrees with something that a guy says, that you don't agree with.
just because a girl isn't a feminist, or belives in men's rights, doesn't make her a "pick me" girl :)
by Nicki Minaj's left asscheek May 27, 2020