The act of unintentionally gaslighting someone because you're genuinely unaware that what you're saying isn't actually true.
Brian: That car's purple and green, just like Barney.
Jason: Barney wasn't green, he was just purple.
Brian: I just looked it up and he was in fact purple and green.
Jason: Oh shit, sorry for gasdarking you bro.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.