Friend of Mara

A term used similarly to Friend of Dorothy, a Friend of Mara is a code word used to describe someone in the LGBTQ+ community. The name "Mara" comes from the 2018 She-Ra reboot.

"Hey, are you, like, yknow, a Friend of Mara?"
"...Yeah? Are you?"
"Yep-"

Friend of Mara by ChikinTheThird November 12, 2020

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Friend Of Mara

"Friend of Mara" comes from the TV show "She-Ra and the Princesses of Power"

While it is used as a password to unlock certain holograms and such in the show, it is also slang for being a member of the queer community within the fandom.

Person: Hey are you a friend of mara?
Fan of SPOP: Yea, I'm Bi. You?

Friend Of Mara by LipSoul's Daughter August 4, 2021

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friend of mara

a she-ra 2018 reboot fan

person 1: are you a friend of mara?
person 2: yea! i love she-ra

friend of mara by lilachopp November 22, 2020

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are you a friend of mara?

it’s used when a sapphic wants to know if you’re a lesbian/sapphic or not. it’s also a she ra reference.

sapphic: “are you a friend of mara?”
other: “ yes i am” ✨winkwink

are you a friend of mara? by sapphenby July 6, 2020

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a friend of mara

Queers (mostly lesbians) ask if you are a friend of mara when they want to know if you are queer as well.
Long time ago they used 'friends of Dorothy' but the crew-ra brought this back again:)

Lesbian: hey. I've been wondering if.. if you are a friend of mara..?
Pan: heck yes I am ;) are you?
Lesbian: definitely.

a friend of mara by SomeAlienKid August 1, 2020

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Friends of Mara

Friends of Mara is referring to any love couple that is part of the LGBTQ+ community.

Look at those two, they are definitely Friends of Mara!

Friends of Mara by FelixIsYoda August 9, 2020

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Grindset

The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.

“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”

Grindset by Omega-Male May 22, 2026

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