A very descriptive term for a flamboyant homosexual. It is basically a cross between the terms "flamer", and "lamesauce", thus it describes an individual as both a flamer, and lame.
Christy: Hey, how that blind date with that guy go?
Symone: Oh. He turned out to be a big bowl of flamesauce....
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.