Extremely flamboyant homosexual. Very bright clothing, loud speach, upbeat attitude, often noisy or annoying, intrusive. Very very gay...
"That guy is acting out some broadway musical in the middle of the street.. what a flamer.."

by Wawa February 22, 2003
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they're not just out of the closet, they're out in the middle of the damn street humping a telephone pole.
Why the hell did we just lose power?

...ooh, nevermind... flamer
by livil January 18, 2011
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1. An outgoing homosexual, who is very open with his gayity.
2. A person who constantly starts fights on forums or message boards. Usually with many vilgar statements, and outright lies.
"That guy is ALWAYS insulting my posts, no matter what! He's such a damn flamer!"
by Felicia January 31, 2003
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1. A flamboyant homosexual.

2. A person who deliberately makes inflammitory or slanderous posts on internet message boards for the purpose of starting a flame war.
1. That one dude from Will & Grace.

2. The forum member's tendancy to insult and pick fights with other users earned him a reputation as a flamer.
by You Can't Kill the Metal June 5, 2005
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A derogatory term for a person of blatant homosexuality.
Stan is wearing a rainbow shirt. What a flamer.
by Anonymous February 15, 2004
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A very flamboyant and outgoing homosexual male you can see and/or smell a mile away. Recognized by his lisp, the way he walks, hand movements, loud speech, bright colored clothing (especially pink), stylish wardrobe, very feminine facial features, his knowledge of women things and knowing how to communicate with them, very open about sex especially his own, and just generally annoying behavior. says things like “you go, girl” and "honey." You will most likely find them in bars/nightclubs especially gay bars, working in women’s apparel shops, working as a hair dresser, working as a fashion designer or as an interior decorator.
It’s safe to say that a flamer is usually gay, but some are not. You can’t judge a book by its cover. Flamers who are not gay are probably a “metrosexual.”
by krock1dk@yahoo.com December 24, 2007
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