Elshaddais are people that will be there for you during hard times. They may have some problem with their brains but you'll get comfortable with them overtime. They also tend to hold in their anger many times so it's pretty rare to see them getting mad openly.However if you do see them like that, it's time for you to step back away from them and give them space.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.