A handsome fly guy who is outgoing and willing to help others. A man who defines himself and controls his own destiny. You are a real ladies man and down to earth person who is humble. You are a serious minded person who lives with purpose.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.