The practice of bringing more than you need into uncertain or uncomfortable situations not out of fear, but out of preparedness and self-respect.
A "cool cat" doesn't stumble through the dark hoping for the best. They illuminate what others leave to chance. The flashlight in the shower isn't paranoia it's the quiet confidence of someone who has decided that their comfort and clarity matter enough to plan for.
"She packed snacks, a portable charger, and a first aid kit for a two-hour road trip; but hey, cool cats take flashlights to showers."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.