A bloodsport where two men are stripped nude and their penises are tied tightly together with wire or twine, their hands are tied behind their backs and they each are allowed a razor blade that is to be clenched between the teeth. On the count of three the men savagely tear at one another with the blades while thrashing their hips to cause as much pain as possible to their adversary. The survivor wins but there is not always one.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.