When a man or boy does or wears something "feminine," which shows that he has guts/ balls.
Check out that football player (UK: rugby bloke) wearing a purple skirt! He obviously ain't a drag queen. He's got the muscles where nobody would dare mess with him!

I wish I were so backhandedly macho!
by Powerpasser March 13, 2018
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