Step Dike 

A lesbian female that resembles a male, who dates a single mother and loves the child as if it were their own....They create a family.

Daniel left Tisha and her 3 kids, but Ebony proposed to tisha and now Ebony is officially a step dike.

Step Dike by Lovelylilass April 27, 2017

stepdike 

Lesbian, Stud, or Dike stepping into a family as the farther figure or male role model in a situation

So are you the mom or the Stepdike in the relationship?

stepdike by Breezy151 August 20, 2023