When a person or persons attempt to meet up with a group of people at a pre-determined location and arrive to find the group has relocated without giving notice there was a change in plans
Nate went to pick us up at our house to give us a ride downtown, but we didn't feel like waiting so we Saundered him and just drove ourselves.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.